Spouses in Transition
While there is no specific data on the divorce rate within the foreign service community, AAFSW has seen an increase in families considering separation or divorce in recent years. These situations sometimes arise under severe circumstances for the spouse and children. Living overseas without the presence of extended family or friends, families, and family members face unique relationship stresses. They must often adapt their personalities or lifestyles to fit into local contexts. The pressures of relocating to a new environment and leaving behind one’s support network can strain marriages.
While divorce is undoubtedly a challenging process, it’s important to remember that AAFSW is steadfast in its commitment to supporting separating and divorcing family members, whether they are in the U.S. or abroad. We mediate and negotiate with the State Department’s Family Liaison Office, support groups, and family lawyers networks.
Please familiarize yourself and share the 2023 Global Community Liaison Office (GCLO) “Divorce and the Foreign Service Rights and Responsibilities” guide. This comprehensive resource offers invaluable information and resources for those navigating this challenging process. It delineates the rights and responsibilities of Foreign Service employees or dependents serving under the Chief of Mission at post. It also offers guidance on potential pension, survivor, and health benefits, as well as resources for counseling services. You can contact the Management Officer assigned to your post for more detailed information. Keep in mind that some benefits may cease once a divorce is finalized.
When in a distress situation, usually during a separation or divorce, to find support navigating these challenging transitions, and under a strict rule of confidentiality, do not hesitate to contact the AAFSW Spouses in Transition Chair, the Foreign-Born Spouse State Liaison Chair, or the Office Manager. Contact us via transition@aafsw.org and familycrisis@aafsw.org.
Celine Ford, President / AAFSW
Spouses in Transition Chair: Celine Ford
Foreign-Born Spouse State Liaison Chair: Sheila Switzer
Please click the links below to access the information.
- Divorce and the Foreign Service – U.S. Department of State
- Divorce is a Process, Not an Event: Resources
- Employee Responsibilities During Impending Dissolution of Marriage or Domestic Partnership
- Divorce Decrees, Court Orders and Foreign Service Annuities, Retirement (AFSA)
- Service Process
- FLO’s Divorce and the Foreign Service handbook (PDF)
- FLO’s webpage of divorce resources
- Divorce and the Foreign Service Handbook for Attorneys
- Pro-Rata Pension Share for former Foreign Service Spouses
- DOS Cable on Divorce and Retirement/Survivor Benefits
- 2018 ECS Support Groups
- Questions to Ask an Attorney
- Divorce Checklist for Couples
- Links for Helping Children Deal with Divorce
